...dh's bro is not being a complete *sswipe. But, he is being a complete guy - totally oblivious. Maybe guys, or at least some guys, never truly grow out of the teenage brain phase (I have to thank my friend, Carol, here for recommending the superb book, "The Primal Teen").
"To be conscious that you are ignorant is a great step to knowledge." ~ Benjamin Disraeli (1804 - 1881)